Used to think banning 'Lolita' was just prudish overreach, then I watched my 14-year-old cousin read it on a whim

I grew up thinking the whole Nabokov thing was just people getting worked up over nothing. Like classic literature, you know? Then last summer at a family BBQ in Tacoma, my cousin who's 14 picks up my copy off the deck table and starts flipping through. She got about 30 pages in before her mom glanced over her shoulder and went pale. I read it again that night from her perspective and realized it's basically a grooming manual disguised as fancy writing. That kid didn't catch the unreliable narrator irony at all, she just thought it was romantic. Changed my whole view on age-appropriate access. Anyone else had a real life moment like that where a banned book hit different when you saw someone else encounter it?

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ryan_nelson4d ago

My 16yo nephew had the same reaction and I had to explain how the guy was literally stalking her.

joseph_coleman4d ago

had the same reaction" like it's obvious or something lmao. Idk man, is it really that deep? Kids be calling everything stalking these days, she probably just liked the attention for a sec.