PSA: A regular at my shop in Phoenix said something that got under my skin

He's a quiet guy, gets a skin fade every two weeks. Yesterday, while I was lining him up, he just said, 'You know, you're the only one who still asks me how I want my neckline.' He wasn't mad, just stating a fact. It made me realize I've been on autopilot with a lot of my regulars, just doing the same thing without checking in. How often do you guys still ask your regulars for their preferences?

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campbell.evan18d ago

Yeah, that hits on something I see everywhere now. We get so used to routines with people that we stop really seeing them, you know? It happens at my local coffee shop too, they just make my usual without asking anymore (which is fine most days, but sometimes I want to mix it up). That small check-in makes people feel seen, and it's scary how easy it is to forget to do it.

jake_thompson18d ago

Totally get that. I had a regular tell me he grew a beard just so someone would ask him a new question. Hits home what @campbell.evan said about the coffee shop. We all fall into the trap. My barber could shave my head and I'd probably just nod and tip, stuck in my own routine. That tiny question is the difference between being a person and being a task on a list.