I was gatekeeping comics for years without even knowing it
Last month, I saw a kid at my local shop in Springfield pick up a Miles Morales graphic novel and ask his dad if it was 'real Spider-Man.' I almost jumped in to explain the whole multiverse thing, but I stopped myself. I realized I was about to lecture a 12-year-old on canon instead of just saying 'Yeah, it's awesome, you should read it.' That moment made me see how often I'd done that, turning simple fun into a test. I've been collecting for 15 years, but I was making it a club with rules instead of a hobby. Has anyone else caught themselves doing this and changed how they talk to new fans?